{"id":2763,"date":"2017-06-27T10:48:12","date_gmt":"2017-06-27T16:48:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/c3.arielbenjamin.com\/?page_id=2763"},"modified":"2017-06-27T11:13:10","modified_gmt":"2017-06-27T17:13:10","slug":"articles","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/c3.arielbenjamin.com\/?page_id=2763","title":{"rendered":"Articles"},"content":{"rendered":"<section   class=\"fw-main-row-custom fw-main-row-top  auto  fw-section-position-back tf-sh-4d65d3730f89aa42bc9b4853d24f159c\"    >\n\t\t\t<div class=\"fw-container\" >\n\t\t<div class=\"fw-row\">\n\t<div id=\"column-6a9e43ed9bde9\" class=\"fw-col-sm-12 tf-sh-09bce973435d6d871a2f9f32d77a4a0d\" >\n\t<div class=\"fw-wrap-col-inner clearfix  \"   >\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"fw-col-inner\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"fw-text-box tf-sh-4ceb9a0d462a57d05267d18a2b497410 \" >\n\t<div class=\"fw-text-inner\">\n\t\t<p><style type='text\/css' media='all'>#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .rt-holder .rt-woo-info .price{color:#0367bf;}body .rt-tpg-container .rt-tpg-isotope-buttons .selected,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .layout12 .rt-holder:hover .rt-detail,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .isotope8 .rt-holder:hover .rt-detail,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .carousel8 .rt-holder:hover .rt-detail,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .layout13 .rt-holder .overlay .post-info,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .isotope9 .rt-holder .overlay .post-info,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840.rt-tpg-container .layout4 .rt-holder .rt-detail,\n\t\t\t\t\t.rt-modal-2883355840 .md-content,\n\t\t\t\t\t.rt-modal-2883355840 .md-content > .rt-md-content-holder .rt-md-content,\n\t\t\t\t\t.rt-popup-wrap-2883355840.rt-popup-wrap .rt-popup-navigation-wrap,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .carousel9 .rt-holder .overlay .post-info{background-color:#0367bf;}#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .layout5 .rt-holder .overlay, #rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .isotope2 .rt-holder .overlay, #rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .carousel2 .rt-holder .overlay,#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .layout15 .rt-holder h3, #rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .isotope11 .rt-holder h3, #rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .carousel11 .rt-holder h3, #rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .layout16 .rt-holder h3,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .isotope12 .rt-holder h3, #rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .carousel12 .rt-holder h3 {background-color:rgba(3,103,191,0.8);}#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .read-more a{border-radius:px;}#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .rt-img-holder img.rt-img-responsive,#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .rt-img-holder,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .rt-post-overlay .post-img,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .post-sm .post-img,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .rt-post-grid .post-img,\n\t\t\t\t\t#rt-tpg-container-2883355840 .post-img img {border-radius:px;}<\/style><div class='rt-container-fluid rt-tpg-container tpg-shortcode-main-wrapper ' id='rt-tpg-container-2883355840'   data-layout='layout1' data-grid-style='even' data-desktop-col='1'  data-tab-col='2'  data-mobile-col='1' data-sc-id='2775'><div data-title='Loading ...' class='rt-row rt-content-loader   layout1 tpg-even '><div class=\"rt-col-md-12 rt-col-sm-6 rt-col-xs-12 even-grid-item rt-grid-item\" data-id=\"2761\"><div class=\"rt-holder\"><div class=\"rt-detail\"><h3 class=\"entry-title\"><a data-id=\"2761\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/c3.arielbenjamin.com\/?p=2761\">Fear, Guilt, Shame, and Desire for Reward vs. Autonomy and Interdependence<\/a><\/h3><div class=\"post-meta-user  \"><span class=\"date\"><i class=\"tpg-flaticon-calendar \"><\/i>June 27, 2017<\/span><span class=\"comment-count\"><i class=\"tpg-flaticon-chat \"><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/c3.arielbenjamin.com\/?p=2761#respond\">(0) <\/a><\/span><\/div><div class=\"tpg-excerpt\">If we try to manage conflicts with our children by managing their behavior to get them to do what we want them to do through punishment, rewards, and \u201cnatural consequences\u201d of our own design (with the end result being our controlling their behavior), the gains will be temporary and will come at a high cost...<\/div><div class=\"post-meta \"><span class=\"read-more\"><a data-id=\"2761\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/c3.arielbenjamin.com\/?p=2761\">Read More<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\t<\/div>\n\t<\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If we try to manage conflicts with our children by managing their behavior to get them to do what we want them to do through punishment, rewards, and \u201cnatural consequences\u201d of our own design (with the end result being our controlling their behavior), the gains will be temporary and will come at a high cost. 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